42. It's not your fault! You can't fix Toxic
The problem with toxic relationships is that because we already know that relationships are not a hundred percent perfect. That makes us think at the beginning that we just hit a bump in the road. And because you just hit a bump in the road, you think that this is something that you can fix and you start working towards your relationship in a different way.
You start looking for different ways to work through your relationship. You start to look for the things that he does that you don't like, or the things that he's said to you that he doesn't like. This makes you start working for your relationship a lot harder than you had been before.
The problem with this is that it doesn't matter how perfect you become for him. It will never be enough because that is not the problem. You are not the problem in the relationship and because you are not the problem, it doesn't matter what you do to make yourself perfect for him.
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