Why do narcissist always ruin the holidays? (Birthday edition)

Episode #41

If you're in a relationship with a narcissist or a person that has narcissistic tendencies, you know exactly what I'm talking about. Narcissists are always used to having the attention and therefore they feel entitled to it.

When the holidays come crawling in, he feels, for example, like Santa or the Easter bunny, Jesus, or even his own kids should not be taking center stage. They should not be taking the importance or the spotlight off of him. 

Why is he like this? First of all, you already know that narcissists and people with narcissistic tendencies lack empathy - as a mom, an aunt, or grandma. The thing that you enjoy the most is seeing your kids happy.   The kids opening presents the egg hunting and so forth. When you lack empathy, you feel no joy in making others happy. There is no joy in giving to others. (for more go to https://rakelcolina.com/41)h 

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